starting over: page dickey’s new book ‘uprooted,’ on making a new garden

THE WORD “downsizing” was spoken more than once, when Page Dickey and her husband were making plans a few years back to leave their beloved home and big old garden, called Duck Hill, in Westchester County, New York, for a new one.

Well, the new piece of land turned out to be bigger than the last, and it has fostered in Page a whole new relationship to gardening—especially, a more intimate connection to nature and the property’s wild-ish areas.

Starting over, and the surprises along the way, are the subject of Page’s new book, called “Uprooted: A Gardener Reflects on Beginning Again” (affiliate link).

Page Dickey is a popular garden writer and author of numerous books, including her newest called Uprooted. And she was the co-founder of the Garden Conservancy Open Days national garden-visiting program. I welcomed her back to the podcast to hear about what happens when a gardener transplants herself–and we touched on topics from native plants to forcing bulbs in a coldframe.

Read along as you listen to the September 28, 2020 edition of my public-radio show and podcast using the player below. You can subscribe to all future editions on Apple Podcasts (iTunes) or Spotify or Stitcher (and browse my archive of podcasts here).

margaret and page in zoom event oct. 6, + all her events

I’M DOING a Zoom event with Page Dickey to celebrate the publication of “Uprooted” on Tuesday October 6, 2020, at 7 PM Eastern Time. It’s hosted by our local independent bookseller, Oblong Books of Millerton and Rhinebeck, New York. We plan to talk in greater depth about our relationship with the wilder parts of the garden and with nature, an important element of her new book. The event is free; sign up here.

Page is also doing talks for the New York Botanical Garden October 20 at 1 PM, and Berkshire Botanical Garden October 22 at 6:30, and for The Garden Conservancy November 5 at 2 PM. All her events are also listed on her website’s event page.


page dickey’s ‘uprooted,’ a story of starting over



Margaret: So congratulations, Page, another book. [Laughter.]

Page: Thank you. I think my last.

Margaret: So down to business: the book. It begins with an Anton Chekhov quote. It says, “I am in the condition of a transplanted tree, which is hesitating whether to take root or begin to wither.” And it looks like you took root, Page. So tell us a little bit; set the scene about this transition for us.

Page: Well, I think in the beginning, and certainly when I didn’t know whether I might wither, it was very hard to leave my old garden. I’d been there for 34 years. My husband joined me for the last 14 of them. And it was a place created over the years, with just a tremendous amount of love and passion. To just walk away from that was difficult.

But after much searching and lots of panic, when we really couldn’t find anything right away, we had decided to move to Northwestern Connecticut. And we found a plot of land that took my breath away, because it was full of fields and woods and wild land, and a view of the Berkshire Hills. It started me on a new adventure. I think that’s when I realized I wasn’t going to wither. [Laughter.] [Below, the new house in Connecticut.]

Margaret: Oh, we didn’t have to irrigate, don’t worry. She’s going to be O.K.

So you had been at Duck Hill for those 34 years. And so, you came to start again, and as you said, this piece of property was breathtaking; it took your breath away. But how do you know where to begin? Because both of us, we were much younger gardeners, much less experienced gardeners-

Page: I’ll say.

Margaret: …when we began, where I still live, around the same time as when you went to Duck Hill—and your work at Duck Hill. We were experimenting with different things. We were in a different stage, as I said, in our experience. Where did you begin? How did you know what to do first, when you got to this new place? Do you know what I mean? What did you say? “Ah, I’ve got to…” Do you know?

Page: Yeah. Well, first of all, there were remnants of a garden, a sort of cottage-y garden, in the front of the house. Although it crossed my mind to just wipe it all out, but of course I didn’t. It was mostly just peonies. And so, I knew that I wanted to play with that, and that would be my perennial garden, you might say, or place for perennials and bulbs, a place we walk through every time we go inside and out. It would a fun place to have that sort of a garden.

But I realized almost immediately, I didn’t want a garden like I had at Duck Hill. Duck Hill was full of hedges and boxwood topiary. It was a series of rooms, and it was very enclosed. And this new place where we lived was open to the sky, and open to the fields, and open to the view. I realized, I didn’t want a hedged-in garden anymore. I wanted something that related to that wildness.

So I think I knew, pretty much right away, that I wanted a lot of natives in this little garden. Things like Amsonia and Baptisia, and asters, and so on.

But then at the same time, as I was thinking about what to do about this little garden, I was starting to explore in the woods. I think we have about 11 acres of woods, and I got so excited about the woods. We have high, rocky, limestone dramatic woods on one side, and low, rich, damp woods on the other side. I got so excited about this wild land, that all of a sudden we were the stewards of, that I was almost torn, half interested in creating a new garden, half of me just wanting to start walks, start paths in the woods, and start cutting down the invasives. That was a whole new world that excited me, right from the beginning. [Below native columbine in the woods at Page’s.]

Margaret: I was thinking about that, as I was reading the new book, as I was reading “Uprooted,” again how different “gardening,” the word gardening, what it means today compared to when we both began gardening.

Page: That’s so true.

Margaret: Yeah, how we couldn’t wait to get, back then, the new collector plant, usually from another country, often Asian or Eurasian. Some rarity. And now, we can’t wait to discover the latest fungi that’s coming up this time of year, if we get a rain. Or the butterfly chrysalis that’s hanging from something. And, as you say, the native plants. It’s such a tremendous change in thinking, in horticulture, I think.

Page: Yeah. And Margaret, it has a lot to do with your and my evolution as gardeners. And our age, I think, and our wisdom, perhaps. But it also has to do with people like Doug Tallamy, who came out with this wonderful book called “Bringing Nature Home.” And other people like Doug Tallamy, who opened our eyes to the whole idea of having habitats that support birds and butterflies, and what that means. Which of course, means caring more for and planting more native plants.

Margaret: Yeah. For me, besides Doug’s work, at University of Delaware also, I remember when I first read about—and this was quite a number of years ago—but the variety trials of native plants by Richard Hawke, at Chicago Botanic Garden, and then, also at Mount Cuba Center in Delaware.

Page: I love those trials.

Margaret: Yeah. Where they take all the cultivars of some native, and do them side-by-side and see which ones-

Page: Exactly. Like the new summer phlox called… I think it’s called ‘Jeana’ that has quite small flowers, but attracts more butterflies than any other native summer phlox, which I thought was so neat. I confess, I immediately went out and bought it.

Margaret: Me, too. Me, too. You’ve been exploring. Just tell us, so the garden you… Partly out of a nod to the past, to the previous owner, and also because of the practical consideration that you could walk by it every day, you let that space in the front be the perennial garden. Are there other areas that you’re gardening in a more horticultural way, versus the work that I want to talk about a little more, in the woods, so to speak?

Page: Yes. Yes. There are few holdovers, you might say, from Duck Hill. One, I love gravel. And now we have a couple of gravel terraces that kind of lure you out from the doors into the garden, or into the land, really. But in one of those gravel places, I’m playing with things just seeding, not necessarily native things. Annuals and bulbs, and plants that like to grow in gravel. Things like ‘Miss Willmott’s Ghost,’ that incredible Eryngium, and Scabiosa ochroleuca, which is a dancing thing that loves to grow in gravel.

And then, I also… a couple of things. I still wanted cutting flowers and a place to grow lettuces. So I did make a little patterned cutting garden, that gets wild and woolly this time of year, because lots of things seed in the gravel and I just let them flower, like cosmos. So those are really holdovers or echoes, you might say, of Duck Hill. [Above, verbascum in the gravel at Page’s former garden.]

[My husband] Bosco was craving a greenhouse, because he had one at Duck Hill. Craziness, we built a little greenhouse, which is high, high maintenance. But it’s what he loves more than anything, and it’s his playground.

So, yes. And then I planted fruit trees because we used to have a little orchard, and I love orchards. I love rows of trees. I love grids of trees. In one spot where there were already some old pears and an old apple, we just went with that, and put in some fruit trees.

Margaret: So there are some elements of horticulture/agriculture.

Page: No question.

Margaret: Yeah. And so, then in the woods, are there some discoveries? I mean, you said taking out invasives and that’s a lifelong task, of course. But are there some plants, did you discover some things in there that you-

Page: Oh my goodness, yes. Well, first of all, somebody called it the Marble Valley. We’re near the Housatonic River, and the soil here, the rock formation, is very alkaline. It’s a calcareous soil. So there’s wildflowers in the woods I had never seen before. I mean, they weren’t just Jack-in-the-pulpits and trilliums, there were things like Desmodium and Packera obovata, which is a little groundcover, which is the only plant—the leaves are the only foliage that the larvae of the endangered northern metalmark butterfly like to eat. All the butterfly experts get very excited at the thought that we have all this Packera obovata. It only grows in limestone, rocky places.

All kinds of discoveries like that. And then in the low woods, at one point it opens up to what turns out to be a fen, which is a calcareous wetland, which is rich in native plants. And there, I see things that I grow in my garden, in their native habitat. All kinds of Joe-pye weeds, and the swamp milkweed called Asclepias incarnata, and vervain. It’s just so thrilling to see these things in their native habitat. And of course, asters, New England asters. Yes, I mean, eye-opening new discoveries, and that’s been the thrill.

Margaret: Here we are, decades into gardening. [Laughter.] And here we are, again, we started out as plant collector-y kind of people, the latest rarity was the thing, and more designed plant combinations. And here now we both are, walking around the fringe of the places that we live, noting diversity and being astonished.

I know exactly where the little treasures are in areas where I’ve stopped mowing, up at the edge of the property, in recent years. Places I used to mow all the way up to the fence-line, way up the hill. It seemed crazy to keep doing it, and I’d see what happened. The other day, I was just up there for something, and along one edge of the fence is the big-leaf aster. I think it’s macrophyllus. It’s not that it’s a rare plant or anything, but Page, how did it get there? I have been subduing it for 30 years.

Page: It’s just so exciting to see these things in nature, and you had nothing to do with it. I just find it such a thrill. I have a little book now. I’ve always been a writer down-er, and I have this little book and it’s just divided into the front field, the back field, the high woods, the low woods, the fen. And then I write down every time I see a new native plant in there, because it’s just a fun record.

Same thing with me, Margaret. I’ve been letting more and more grass go to meadow. Who needs all that grass? Our grass is horrible, anyway. It’s not a carpet of… Anyway. And all this little bluestem has appeared. Every year, there’s more of it. Every year there’s more bergamot, Monarda fistulosa, and it’s so exciting. I can’t tell you.

Margaret: It is funny, isn’t it? I go around, marching around like a crazy person, seeing all the oak seedlings [above, one at Page’s]. And that’s another thing, you say oak, but there’s so many different ones. [Laughter.]

Page: Exactly. We have just so many oak seedlings here, and we don’t have a deer fence. I mean, I wish we did. But we have 17 acres and it’s just not in the budget. Anyway, I go around every couple of weeks and spray all these oak seedlings with Deer Defeat, which is just this organic horrible smelly stuff, which seems to help keep the deer away. And when I see an oak tree that really has a lot of sky above it, so I know it can grow and get big, we put a little wire fence around it. It’s very exciting to see.

Margaret: You’re protecting your babies. [Laughter.]

Page: Protecting our babies, yeah.

Margaret: As a counterpoint, you say in the book… A counterpoint to the wilder places that have really won your heart over, at this new property. Which, I guess, it has a name, too. The Church House, yes?

Page: Well, it was a church, yes.

Margaret: I see. You say in the book, “After compost heaps, cold frames were one of the features I wanted most when making the new garden.” And there’s this October ritual, a timely ritual, that you talk about—having to have the right cold frames to be able to force bulbs. An old fashioned garden hobby, that people did a lot more years ago than they do now. Just tell us a little bit about the cold frames, for a couple minutes.

Page: Well, we had cold frames at Duck Hill. Years, and years, and years, and years ago, I used to sow seeds of perennials in trays. And have them, over the winter, in the cold frames. Just the way Louise Beebe Wilder told me to do in one of her wonderful books. But for the last… I don’t know, 30 years, I would guess, I’ve used the cold frames to force bulbs. I order bulbs, all sorts of bulbs, but lots of different Narcissus, daffodils, and crocuses and Scilla and all sorts of things like that.

In October, I pot them up in nice clay pots. And then I sink them into… We now use shavings because we just buy shavings at Agway. And I sink them in shavings, in the cold frames. I’ve watered them. We shut down the cold frames, and then wait, usually about 14 weeks. And then I start pulling them out and bringing them indoors. It is so fun. It’s just this treat.

Just watching these little irises, or daffodils, or crocuses, or hyacinths come into bloom in your house.

I used to throw them away after they were spent, until I married Bosco. He, being a refugee, doesn’t throw anything away. And so he said, “No, no, no, we’re going to plant them.” So now, we plant them. The daffodils, we plant under the apple trees. I sneak the other bulbs in, among the perennials. And by gum, they keep flowering. They flower the next year and the year after that.

You don’t have to have a cold frame to do that. You can use an extra refrigerator. You can put pots of bulbs, if you have an outdoor hatch to your cellar, you can do it on one of those steps. You can do it in a styrofoam box, in your garage, if you can keep them from freezing. You just don’t want the pots to freeze.

But our cold frames are 3 feet high in the back, about a foot high in the front. They’re 3 by 3, wooden, with a heavy plexiglass top. I actually have three of them, so I have 9 feet of cold frames. Used to have 6 feet. And that works really well. We used to use glass. We used to use old storm windows, things like that. But the plexiglass is much easier and it doesn’t break. It’s much lighter.

Margaret: Well, I’m very jealous. I’m totally jealous, Page, of your bulb-forcing apparatus, so to speak. We’re out of time, but I wanted to say how much I’ve been enjoying the book. I’m looking forward to our conversation together for Oblong Books, which I think is going to be a little bit about the wild spaces, in more depth. So thank you so much for joining us today.

enter to win a copy of ‘uprooted’

I’LL BUY A COPY of Page Dickey’s latest book, “Uprooted: A Gardener Reflects on Beginning Again,” for one lucky reader. All you have to do to enter is comment in the box at the very bottom of the page, answering this question:

Are you gardening in your first garden, or have you, like Page Dickey, ever been uprooted? Do tell. (This is my second garden, but I have been here more than 30 years; the first was a 5-year effort when I was first learning to garden, before I had my own place.)

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margaret and page in zoom event oct. 6, + all her events

I’M DOING a Zoom event with Page Dickey to celebrate the publication of “Uprooted” on Tuesday October 6, 2020, at 7 PM Eastern Time. It’s hosted by our local independent bookseller, Oblong Books of Millerton and Rhinebeck, New York. We plan to talk in greater depth about our relationship with the wilder parts of the garden and with nature, an important element of her new book. The event is free; sign up here.

Page is also doing talks for the New York Botanical Garden October 20 at 1 PM, and Berkshire Botanical Garden October 22 at 6:30, and for The Garden Conservancy November 5 at 2 PM. All her events are also listed on her website’s event page.

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  1. LISA LUYTEN says:

    I have been uprooted a few times. I am already planning for my next uprooting in 7 years when I retire to the Northern Bruce. Which plants will I bring, and will I go more natural?

  2. Susan says:

    I moved 12 years ago, similar story to Page. 17 acres, woods, meadows, old perennial garden, remnants of an orchard etc. I would love her book! I need some guidance. Love your podcasts!

    1. Nancy C Cox says:

      I am uprooted since August of this year. Similar to the author, I had a traditional garden previously but am now surrounded by beautiful woods and want to recreate with natives. Living in the PNW there are many to choose from. I plan to buy some bare root plants at a native plant sale next spring and rid myself of grass. Hopefully most of it, but I can see that will take years. I laughed when I saw the topic in your newsletter. Just right on!

  3. Theresa Monahan says:

    Enjoyed this podcast very much, I have been going wilder year by year, even in my existing garden. As I pull or divide plants I move to other gardens to share and make more room for new and often native plants.
    – TM

  4. I’ve just left my large old southern Craftsman, in South Georgia, after 26 years of joy in my garden! Headed to Eugene Or. for a new adventure, in a small modern house. I’m thrilled to learn about the native plants here, and to spend this first winter working on my future garden plans!

  5. Kathy says:

    I wish I could start over! After fifty years in the same place, I have many ideas for how I should have planned better instead of just buying plants I like and sticking them in someplace, with too much ‘grass’ (mostly ground ivy etc.) between the many little beds, or overgrown big beds. But it’s still a magical place.

  6. Kali says:

    I do a couple of hundred of bulbs in clay pots, planted in Fall, watered and kept in my uninsulated shed. Somehow, they survive every Hudson Valley winter and offer a bountiful and colorful spring display at my front door. This podcast inspired me!

  7. Susan says:

    Uprooted,,,we moved a little over 2 years ago. It’s been fun learning what’s here. I’ve always looked for natives and continue to do that to support the locals. I’m lucky because we moved to an easier climate and a richer soil, so it’s been easier in some respects and a lot of fun figuring out the challenges.

  8. Mary Ann says:

    I was just uprooted 5 years ago and I brought only 5 favorites from my gardens of 25 years. I wish I had taken more! I am planning on one final move in about 3 years and then I plan to take one of everything. I would love to read about Page’s new home. I hope to have about 10 acres with a farm house and wild woods just like Page.

  9. Gerri says:

    We have uprooted five times and started new gardens each each new home. Our last move three years ago brought us to the south. After I planted hostas and ferns where it seemed shady, they did poorly. Now I always do the research and consult our local garden center first. So much to learn!
    Thank you both for your inspiration and enthusiasm!

    1. Helen says:

      I am starting a new garden in the western foothills of Maine on 11 acres. Loved the interview and would enjoy the book.

  10. Brenda says:

    I’m in my second garden, but currently waiting for some major updates to our septic system, adding on a front & back deck and THEN, I can get to work!!

  11. Dalynn Sours says:

    I would love to read Page’s book. I am really interested in blending my more formal garden areas with a “wild” native area.

      1. Anne says:

        I enjoyed this conversation so much ! I live on 20 acres, about half of it woods. Learning more about natives and regretting many of the plant choices that I have made in years past, but …

  12. Julie says:

    Not my first plot of land, but my first real garden. It’s two acres. I think I love it almost as much as I love my children. Almost.
    Funny to think back on those early endeavors.

  13. Linda says:

    I’ve been tending the same garden for thirty-five years. Many of my plantings attract butterflies, bees, and hummingbirds. In addition to garden beds, I have a cutting garden where I experiment with different seeds. I enjoy discovering what works and what doesn’t. Love making arrangements with the flowers I grow.

    1. Barbara says:

      Been working at this garden for 35 wonderful years. It’s very small. How can it take so much time?! Changes constantly! Never looks the same. Never satisfied, but I love it.

      1. Gale Jourdet says:

        I am on my second garden as well. My first home was and is, I own it still, a mountain home in Pa. After years of trial and error trying to grow all kinds of perennials, every type of annual only to be disappointed by spindly growth, I sensibly turned to other plants. Cool climate, high elevation, cloudy more than sunny, and living under the canopy of 8 splendid 100’ ft. old oak trees, I slowly morphed, by trial and error, into learning the true performers for such a climate. Sedums, of all colors, hosta, ferns, daylillies, Alpine Spirea, Rhododendrons, native Mountain Laurel, and for variation from all the green…Japanese Willow and zebra grasses. Window boxes and crocks I filled with ivy, Impatiens, Coleus, Swedish ivy. But the other story here is that we couldn’t grow grass. So we allowed the native moss to take over the lawns. Simply beautiful.
        10 years ago, we downsized to a smaller home on the sunny coast of Maine. Smaller house, but bigger garden. I can grow everything here! What a surprise for me. I am having the time of my gardening life! Hydrangeas, roses, of course, but anything and everything else too. The morning brings a breeze heavily laden with moisture. It acts like a fertilizer. At age 68 I am gardening more than ever. And because of the variety and color of many of these plants I am thrilled, filled with wonder and am so satisfied.
        Must say tho, that when I go home to Pa. in the Fall, I am surprised as I look upon another pleasure. My first garden there has been taken over by Nature. Moss is everywhere, Native trees and shrubs have grown into specimen size. It’s colorful October, the Ferns, now in sepia, our immense Burning Bush is putting on a show of burgundy, below a huge Cornus Florida, leaves of light yellow simmering in the glow of the thin afternoon sun. I take notice as I hold my heart. Here is my “old friend”- my first garden, now a splendid woodland garden that thrills me when I arrive home every Fall. I feel regret that one day soon I will move to Maine for good. And I know I will cry with a very heavy heart when I finally leave my “old woodland” garden for the last time.

  14. Donna Gisch says:

    Started gardening at my little house for 10 years, then married and had a blank slate to start on. Have worked on this for 20 years now, still plotting, planning, and planting!

    1. Stephanie says:

      I have just begun work on my second garden after saying goodbye to my first. Who knew there could be such pain from having to say goodbye to one’s garden? I shed more tears than I thought possible as I watched the butterflies on my milkweed that final day. I made the mistake of listening to our broker who advised we could not take any plants, a decision I greatly regret as I’ve watched my cuttings be devoured by slugs.
      This second garden brings new challenges and surprises and of course, new opportunities. I’ll continue down my previous path of planting natives, but in larger quantities. And this time, I’ll turn to books to help me create a more thoughtful design.

  15. Heidi says:

    I’ll be uprooting in a few years time and going back home to New England (finally). Until then will keep adding native plants to my current 2 acres in the Midwest.

  16. Joseph says:

    Count me in. I’m still working on my first garden after 15 years. I’m doing an overhaul for 2021. I loved Page Dickey’s book “Embroidered Ground” about the garden at Duck Hill. A beautifully written book. I can’t wait to read “Uprooted” her new adventure in gardening and her personal stories. Thanks for another great podcast.

  17. Joan Newman says:

    I loved reading this post. I moved to 4 1/2 acres on the western slope of the Blue Ridge Mts. in Bluemont VA at about 1,560 feet. The property was logged many years ago and the old hardwoods, especially the oaks were removed. Now the trees are mostly tulip poplars and several varieties of hickories but I do find a smaller oak here and there. I am having a wonderful time incorporating natives and creating meadow areas, wooded areas as well as a fenced area for vegetables ( yes, we have deer). It is an exciting adventure to watch for plants that come up in disturbed areas. I love it.

  18. Pati says:

    I’m in the midst of redesigning a postage stamp sized garden that has good bones but it hopelessly undernourished. I’m eliminating about 1/2 of the lawn with grasses and hearty natives. Would love having Paige’s book in my library as a handy go to for this ambitious project

  19. Terri Jones says:

    Enjoyed this conversation and can relate to how our gardening changes over the years….focus on natives and wildlife. I’ve uprooted once and love my present garden home so much!

  20. Susan Morgan Hindinger says:

    I have just uprooted my garden to start fresh. Fifteen years ago we built our house and started a family, and a dear friend brought me plants she divided from her extensive flower gardens. Unbeknownst to me, a couple of them contained fragments of gout weed. After trying to keep it contained for all these years, I was losing the battle and couldn’t tolerate the threat to my otherwise blissfully non-invaded property. So, this Mother’s Day, is tears of spreading mulch and planting pansies, we got out the backhoe and black tarps. I dug out everything, wrapped it in tarps and left it on the edge of the woods to bake and compost. Covered the beds with black tarps which I will leave for two years. Then covered that with 4”” of compost and some mulch, and planted annuals just to brighten things up (this was the whole front of my house.) I will take this opportunity to plan and maybe redesign…I have time to consider!…and start fresh, saying “no, thank you” to offers from kind friends who would share their gardens’ bounty.

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