in the garden and etc. with margaret
M AY IS MADNESS. I have already said that in the monthly chores column. But it’s madness otherwise, too: garden tours to prep for; workshops I’m giving with friends; a garden contest I’m judging (as in, free prizes!); a sister in the news to brag about…and oh, I need your help with the Urgent Garden Question Forums here, too. The details, on all of it (and more):
Win Prizes (If I Say So!) at Beekman1802: I am not the only Martha Stewart dropout to move to old farmland in the New York State countryside. Dr. Brent Ridge, a former colleague, has also done so (along with his partner, Josh Kilmer-Purcell). I have frogboys and a tiny house; they have goatboys (well, goatgirls, actually, I suppose) and a mansion. Why do I mention this? Brent and Josh are having an online garden party on the blog that celebrates their astonishing farm, Beekman1802, and in May have asked me to judge a contest they’re holding (read: I get to give away a 10-piece tool set to the winner). The challenge: Do you have a homemade garden tool or a tip about some ingenious such device? Share it in the comments at Beekman1802 to enter. See you there. (“Vanity Fair” photo.)



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Open Days May 31 and August 22: Open Days will be held here at A Way to Garden on Sunday, May 31, 10 AM to 4 PM, $5 admission to benefit the Garden Conservancy. Details and directions can be had at their website. The bout of 90-plus two weeks ago has sped things along insanely, so I am no longer making predictions on what will be featured. But (barring snow or locusts) alliums, perennial geraniums, and viburnums, at least, should be in attendance. (I will be the one lying face down, drooling, on the lawn from total exhaustion if you wish to say hello.) My other open day this season is August 22; information at this local website.
Container-Garden Exhibit, Opening June 6, through the season, Berkshire Botanical Garden, Stockbridge, Mass. In collaboration with Bob Hyland of Loomis Creek Nursery, Hudson, New York, to help celebrate the 75th anniversary of BBG, I’m co-creating an exhibition called “Contained Exuberance: A Fresh Look at Gardening in Pots.” (413) 298-3926.
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Thank you for sharing Marion’s article and op ed. In doing hospice volunteer work I have encountered many elderly people with forms of dementia. I’ve watched them go through calm times and stormy. I cannot imagine the pain of going through it with a parent in her prime. Marion’s article gave a clear picture, and reading both of your “She Said”s on The Sister Project expanded the complexity. As a sister myself, I appreciate your sharing.
Congrats to Marion, brilliant and moving article. I vote for more workshops on Sunday’s, as my Saturday’s are at my studio.
I am so looking forward to seeing your garden, my calender has a red star on that day.