April 25, 2008
NOTHING LASTS. Need I say more to a bunch of gardeners? Not winter, nor spring, nor any other season; not Narcissus nor magnolias. Not us. The Japanese celebrate this very fact (instead of fearing it) in the form of the Sakura Matsuri, or Cherry Blossom Festival, which honors the ephemeral nature of all things. I like to celebrate it at every passing in the garden, like today when the
magnolia flowers shattered in the warm breeze and fell from heaven to earth, like snow…speaking of things that are transient.
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I was so blessed to visit and document many of the nation’s finest homemade gardens for 15 years for ‘Martha Stewart Living,’ first as its garden editor and then as editorial director for the company. The list of places we were proud to publish included my own upstate New York home a few years back. Take a tour of how it looked then. Want to know more about me? Or read what Anne Raver said in June in The New York Times, calling A Way to Garden “the best (garden blog) I’d ever seen.” Adrian Higgins of The Washington Post was similarly kind. And so was Martha, on her TV show.
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December Garden Chores
All based on my Zone 5B Berkshire/Hudson Valley location; adjust accordingly.
THE PAUSE THAT REFRESHES: Gardeners, like their gardens, benefit from a bit of dormancy, and the time is upon us. Enjoy it. Seed-catalog season gets going in earnest later in the month, so early December is prime time to inventory leftover seeds and store them in a cool, dry place. A friend stashes his in the fridge, first sealing in zipper bags with the air squeezed out, then placing the bags in a sealed plastic box rather than have strays get lost among the yogurt and mayonnaise.
Toss those more than a few years old and make a list of what you’ll need. Not that any act of self-control stops me from ordering yet another gourd or pumpkin variety, or some oddity I simply must have or perish. My list of favoirite sources is in the right-hand sidebar of every page here.
Position your seed-shopping easy chair to point out the window, where there are still riches: berries, bark, new birds. Did you join Project Feederwatch yet?
Mole patrol continues: I am still setting out mousetraps under boxes, buckets or cans in the gardens where I see any activity, to rid them from my beds and borders.
HOUSEPLANTS
KEEP AN EYE OUT for signs of houseplant pests like spider mites, mealybugs, and scale insects. If tackled before they get out of hand, nonchemical methods are usually successful: a simple shower, insecticidal soap spray (as directed on label) or with the most tenacious (like mealybugs) sometimes an alcohol swab and Q-tip. Overwatering is the biggest risk to houseplants in winter…go easy.
START A POT OF PAPERWHITES in potting soil or pebbles and water, and stagger forcing of another batch every couple of weeks for a winterlong display.
WAKE UP WELL-RESTED amaryllis bulbs by watering once, placing in a bright spot, and waiting for them to respond. If no dice in a couple of weeks, water again…but don’t repeatedly water an unresponsive bulb or it may rot. It will tell you when it’s ready for action.
TREES & SHRUBS
CLEAR TURF OR WEEDS from the area right around the trunks of fruit trees and ornamentals to reduce winter damage by rodents. Hardware cloth collars should be in place year-round as well.
BE EXTRA-VIGILANT cleaning up under fruit trees, as fallen fruit and foliage allowed to overwinter invites added troubles next season.
ALWAYS BE on the lookout for dead, damaged, diseased wood in trees and shrubs and prune them out as discovered. This is especially important before winter arrives with its harsher weather, where weaknesses left in place invite tearing and unnecessary extra damage. Remove suckers and water sprouts, too.
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FLOWER GARDEN
PROTECT ROSES FROM WINTER damage by mounding up their crowns with a 6- to 12-inch layer of soil before the ground freezes. After all is frozen, add a layer of leaf mulch to further insulate.
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Brief but Juicy
ultimate garden no-no’s
WHEN SOMEONE ASKED in a comment about my point of view on using landscape fabric, the fuse was quickly lit: NO! I said. NO! I’ve rounded up some no-no’s we’ve posted collectively so far, but I bet by now there are a few more things to bitch about. Grab a lawn chair and a cold drink, and we can fester together. Sure beats weeding (which ought to be a garden no-no).
lose anything lately?
THE SAYING GOES THAT a thing of beauty is a joy forever. I guess “forever” in this case is in the mind’s eye. My darling, oldest bottlebrush buckeye (Aesculus parviflora) went down for the count in July, or at least half of it did, and I had already seen the death knell for a couple of my 10 crabapples. Jeez.
true love, really
LOOK, I HAVE A THING for frogs. Call it my little fetish. An issue. Whatever. My general obsession notwithstanding, I’ve finally met THE ONE FOR ME.
hail the stewartia
I LIKE PLANTS THAT EARN THEIR KEEP. By that I mean they do more than a week or two of showing off; they look good in more than a single moment, or season. The small-ish to medium trees in the genus Stewartia are a good bet if that’s the kind of multi-season interest you are looking for. Sound good?
more, more, more clematis
WHEN I SEE ‘POLISH SPIRIT’ CLAMBERING up and through the golden Chamaecyparis in late spring-into-summer, I realize I have a serious Clematis shortage around here. Not in the Chamaecyparis, specifically, but in lots of other places where things look a little dull. I’ve got a penchant for growing vines up and over otherwise-dull shrubbery, you see.
can-do pruning
REPEAT AFTER ME: I can prune. I can prune. If you follow this simple method for starters, your woody plants will thank you.
the ‘other’ peonies
JUNE WAS PEONY TIME, the big raucous kind of peony time, but just before that another kind of peony you might want to consider adopting did its subtler, wonderful thing.
which lilac to plant?
SO MANY LILACS, so little space. Browse a glossary of some of my favorites before you shop—maybe you’ll like them, too.
non-blooming peonies?
Did your peonies not cooperate—was there not a good crop of flower buds, and you don’t know why? This came up on the Forums, and here’s the dish.
twist-off ticks
I AM COMING IN everyday with at least a tick or two on me; not embedded, thankfully, so far, but it's only a matter of time. But I am prepared. Are you?
anything but forsythia
I guess I have a thing against forsythia…even though I have several specimens of it along the fringes of my property. But there are better choices for spring color among shrubs.
surprise (avian) visitors
If you make a garden for birds, or even plant a crabapple or two (or ten), you never know who’ll show up.
magnolias to love
THEY’RE MEMORIES NOW but I couldn't garden without magnolias. Want to know more about the queen of the spring-blooming trees?
order in the garden
I AM LABELING my plants, I am. As memory fades, out comes the label machine, just in the nick. Saved by the Dymo. You can be, too.
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Beautiful woo-woo! And those spherical ornaments you have are gorgeous. They weren’t there last time. New additions! They look perfect there.
How beautiful, and what a wonderful sentiment…to celebrate the passage of each transient step of the garden. I collect round beach stones and am smitten by yours!
Welcome, Nancy, to A Way to Garden. I am glad we share similar interests, and hope you will visit again soon and find more such connections.
M.
What a beautiful sentiment! I think you magnificiently captured the transient nature of spring.
It looked like snow earlier this week when I left work and the blossoms were falling from the trees in the blustery wind. How I wish I had had my camera with me at that very moment!
How wonderful to be able to spend time in your garden after wonderful years in the big time. I look forward to reading your thoughts and viewing your lovely pictures.
Thank you, Frances, and welcome to A Way to Garden. I am having such fun, me and my Nikon and my Mac. See you here again soon!
Margaret
Indeed, a thought to keep in mind.. nothing lasts. After two weeks of above normal temperatures that brought the gardens to life, we’re returning to a cold snap on Monday (watch out Margaret, you get our weather a day later or so!). It’s been so beautiful, I seemed to have forgotten it’s only April. (82 degrees here today!) Reality can be harsh.. but we’ll bounce back nicely in a few days.
The thing I keep thinking when I read about frost coming after 80ish the last week is this: Do I have enough old sheets and Reemay garden fabric to really cover up EVERYTHING that has tender baby leaves? Don’t think so. Oh, well, we shall see what really comes to pass…
M.
Bittersweet, transient beauty. I’m always sorry to see the pink crabapple blossoms that line my street fall to the ground, and yet I know I wouldn’t love them so much if they were *always* in bloom.
I never know whether to be saddened or amused when I receive questions from people who buy plants in full bloom (nearly past bloom) only to discover that a few days later they are no longer flowering. They seem surprised to learn that a Lady Banks rose or an Indian hawthorn flowers only once a year…and that they’ll have to wait another 50 weeks to see them in their glory again.
As the Japanese proverb goes, “The flowers that bloom so sweetly wither and fall. Our human life, too, is fleeting. Today, again, I will cross the mountain pass of this uncertain world, and will not entertain shallow dreams or give away to drunkenness.” Well, I don’t know about the latter!
I like the sentiment expressed here. My magnolia flowers have also shattered and fallen, too soon to be followed by serviceberry and crabapple blossoms. And how can it already be time to dead-head the daffodils?
One thing that seems to last in the garden are the weeds…
Welcome, Carol.
The Amelanchier just came into bloom the last two or three days, and will soon be gone, and I await the crabapples, which are showing color today as the buds swell.
And yes, those weeds…I am particularly insane about garlic mustard, which seems to have no end to its energy or abundance here. I suppose it is my destined spiritual practice to bend and pull, bend and pull, bend and pull.
Margaret
About those stone orbs. Do you know the history of those ornaments? One sees them in Mexican gardens and I’ve always assumed that they originated as some Aztec pyramid something, but I’ve never been able to confirm.
Funny, Gina, I don’t know–just know I am attracted to them. In so many cultures round things are about eternity, and are feminine, but I don’t know anything except that I saw them and adopted them.
Now you will have me doing some searching…good question!