happy birthday to me, and then some

yellow-tree-peonyH OW TO CELEBRATE A JUNE BIRTHDAY IN THE GARDEN? By thinking back, and also looking ahead: two traits every gardener needs to cultivate. So what am I reflecting on and planning for on my happy birthday today?

Birthdays require flowers. Make mine peonies, one of the best perks of a June birthday. I am currently overrun by them, and the house actually smells too sweet; I had to put several vases outside. I even had the first-ever tree peony blossoms of my garden career (above) to cheer me this time around. That’s ‘Yellow Crown,’ which produced its first two flowers this year. Tada! Looks like a cupcake with lots of frosting, doesn’t it?

weasel-tailBirthdays require gifts, and Jack the Demon Cat took care of this one already. Yes, another weasel tail on the front doormat (above); making four in the last week. Wish he’d stick to chipmunks and mice and moles, but he dances (and hunts) to his own beat, my Jack does, and all night long.

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Birthdays require music. I’m not singing “Happy Birthday” but instead “Combine Harvester,” a tractor song that seems much more in tune with my current life. It is my 2009 theme song, as I have mentioned. (Or maybe I should sing a chorus of “Get Happy” along with Judy Garland, who would have been 87 today, about my age.)

Birthdays require a toast, and I’m toasting myself by re-reading what I wrote 20 years ago this week, originally under the headline “Turning the Earth, and 35,” that sounds just like what I’d write today.

Birthdays require ceremony. I’m going to plant a shrub I’ve always wanted, Ribes odoratum, an intensely fragrant yellow-flowered currant and my birthday gift to myself, something I can watch grow up.

frozen-sauceBirthdays require family. My sister and niece will arrive later with the usual assortment of gag gifts and good wishes. They’ll bring their homemade meatballs (I have vegetarian ones here for my plate) to slather in my red-sauce from last year’s garden, sauce I’ve had tucked in my freezer ever since (above). We’ll serve it up with sides of this year’s spinach and asparagus and a big homegrown salad and the first ‘Sugar Ann’ snap peas.

Things could be worse.

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  1. Sounds like the perfect day to me, especially the gravy and the peonies. My office is oozing with the sweet scent too!

    Have a great day!

  2. Happy Birthday!

  3. Happy Birthday, fellow Gemini! That yellow peony is sublime!

  4. A very happy birthday to you! Your plans to celebrate sound wonderful.

  5. Happy Birthday!

    Is there a field guide to detached tails? ;-)

  6. Enjoy the day! Sounds like a perfect way to spend a birthday.

  7. Happy Birthday, Margaret!!!
    Enjoy your family and summer bounty, it doesn’t get any better than that.

  8. Margaret,

    How wonderful that the tree peony delivered on your special day. How many birthdays went by before the “Yellow Crown” flowered? I am still waiting for my tree peonies — planted four years ago — to deliver flowers while the herbaceous peonies are popping ever more fully each year. I believe I’ve sited the tree peonies correctly and treat them appropriately as the woody plants they are. Patience, I presume is the ticket.

    Best birthday wishes!

  9. Welcome, Maggie; love that you call it “gravy” like all my friends’ Italian mothers and grandmothers. :) See you soon again.

    Welcome, Laura. Also on the program: A trip to the DMV to get my license renewed. Woo-hoo!

    @Entangled: A field guide to detached tails would have been a good gift for me. I will tell my sister. :) I just saw that Jack’s tails made the famous knitter and knitting teacher Annie Modesitt’s Flickr photo stream, so Jack is really gaining in acclaim.

    @All of you: Thank you for all your visits, especially today.

  10. Happy birthday, Margaret!

  11. Happy birthday, fellow Gemini! Mine was on Tuesday. :) We’re lucky to have June birthdays, if you ask me.

  12. Happy Happy Birthday! And thank you for the gift of your virtual garden everyday.

  13. Happy Birthday!

  14. Brian G. says:

    Happy Birthday, looks delicious (the cupcake like peony, not the weasel tail!)

  15. Happy birthday Margaret from a long time lurker! I have been close to posting many times…like when your blog influenced me to buy hardy geraniums to use as ground cover (move over vinca and pachysandra!)…or when you introduced me to a half-moon edger -only to discover that manual edging is not for the faint of heart, or should I say, back! But today I am compelled to post because it is also my daughter’s birthday. She just turned 3 and she too will celebrate with a giant cupcake!
    Happy Birthday!

  16. Welcome, Ro, and happy birthday to your little girlie. Nice. I am sorry to wreck your back but happy to have you knee-deep in geraniums. See you again soon, and enjoy the cupcake and the whole day with her.

  17. Happy Birthday Margaret xx

  18. Andrea from NC says:

    Happy Birthday Margaret! It sounds like a perfect day, and I wish you many more just as lovely. Cheers!

  19. Happy Birthday, Margaret! I love the care with which you’re planning your birthday. It sounds as if it will be complete and sublime!

  20. CovingtonKat says:

    Happy Birthday to you, Margaret! So glad you told us so we could send our good wishes to you…I’m a firm believer in letting people know – more Happy all around, right?!? And so nice of Jack to leave the gift…gee, I’ve NEVER gotten one of those…

    Have a wonderful day – with family, food, and lots of flowers – that peeee-oooooooh-nee is just gorgeous!

  21. dirtgirl says:

    Happy, happy, Birthday Margaret! You are well loved for sure.

    Your words, your gardens, your photos inspire me so.
    No yellow peony here, but I’m going to fetch me a large yellow
    rose and copy you today. :)

    Best wishes for a bunch more birthdays. :)

  22. Happy Birthday Margaret, must be gardeners birthday month lots of gardeners have a birthday this month. Great month for garden birthday party’s. Enjoy your celebration’s.

    Have a Great Day,
    John and Liza

  23. Welcome, Andrea, and thank you for your good wishes. I hope to see you again soon.

  24. Happy B day Margaret, enjoy your day.
    XO

  25. Happy Birthday, Margaret!

  26. For my birthday what I *really* wanted besides all your swell wishes (and the weasel tail) was to finish some system upgrades we have been working on this week. There’s never a good time…so now’s the time.

    A few of your comments got trapped in the black hole between worlds, but here they are:

    April from http://coalcreekfarm.com said:

    Well, now I’m going to be singing, “I’ve got a brand new combine harvester and I’ll give you the key, oo ar oo ar” for the next several hours. Hope you’re happy.

    HighValley Farmgirl said:
    Happy Birthday Margaret. Make it a doozie.

    From your friends up the road a piece,

    D & E and assorted critters including the Big R.

    Barbara H. said:
    Happy birthday to you, Happy birthday to you, Happy birthday, dear Margaret, Happy birthday to you. And many more…

    Like Nancy, I post seldom but read often. And like everyone above I so appreciate your generous sharing of information, stories, and wonderful photos of your beautiful garden.

    Nancy O. said:
    Happy Birthday, Margaret!!
    I post seldom, but read often. :-) Thank you for this site and your beautiful garden full of ideas and information.

    Woody Plant Girl said:

    What a lovely tradition to plant something you have chosen for a birthday wish for future joy. Happy birthday and good hunting to Jack.

    Johanna of busysolitudefarm.com said:

    Happy happy happy! Must be wonderful to celebrate during the most floriferous month — the yellow peony is a knockout! Enjoy your day and have a happy, healthy year ahead.

    Denden said:

    buen compleanos, senorita margaret!
    disfrutate su dia especial, y espero que tu tienes muchos mas.
    hasta augusto veinte dos….su amigo del jardin,
    denden

  27. Happy B-day Margaret!
    Yes, it could be worse.
    Unfortunately I can’t see the pics but I can imagine them…Mine are about to pop, but alas, up north its been cold and rainy with no end in sight. So we wait.
    Enjoy the remains of your day,
    best,
    Ailsa

  28. Happy Birthday. Looks like you had all the ingredients to make it a fun birthday!

  29. Happy, happy birthday, Margaret! Sorry I’m a day late! My, that Jack certainly knows how to please a girl, doesn’t he?

  30. Margaret, Happy (belated but no less heart-felt) Birthday. June is a wonderful month for a birthday. A fragrant shrub is the perfect self-gift. Is that clove currant? Our youngest daughter is a June baby, and in honour of that we gave her the second name of Rose — which I hope she’ll come to appreciate more than she does at the moment. Cheers!

  31. Happy Birthday Margaret! I’m sure moving your site to a new server on your Bday wasn’t exactly your wish, but at least it’s done now!

    Hope you had a great birthday and looking forward to visiting with April soon! :)

  32. Happy birthday! That peony is gorgeous. I’m 35 and hope to be as good at this as you are, in due time. I had to laugh about the toads in your hill of beans story. They’ve always been my favorite garden critter. Maybe I’ll be more of a frog fan later on, too (first, I’ll need a pond).

    Here’s hoping Jack just got the tails, leaving the weasels to carry on minus decoration. My first ferocious hunter used to get a squirrel tail every now and then. The squirrel that lived in the nearest tree, minus half a tail, spent many afternoons screaming at him while he napped on the porch.

  33. Your wonderful blog is like a present to me so I hope your birthday brought presents you enjoy!

    Many more!
    Dave

  34. Happy birthday and many happy returns of the day, That’s a gorgeous peony.

    We have a tailless squirrel in our neighborhood. Has Jack ever been to Seattle?

  35. Bon anniversaire, Margaret! Thank you again for sharing your joy, your humor, and your wisdom! Your are the bee’s knees!

  36. Welcome, Dawn. I love that expression, “bee’s knees,” always have. So thanks. Nice to see you here.

  37. Fred from Loudonville, NY says:

    Margaret….The peony cupcake looks like something DELICIOUS from “Martha’s” kitchen. But your’s is ALL natural, and even BETTER, calory FREE! My belated Birthday wish to you, Gardening Maven is…May the rest of your life, be the BEST of your life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  38. Aw, dear sweet Margaret, happiest of birthdays to you, weasel-tail and all. I have been meaning to write to you, since I think of you every single morning as I look at (and pee in my pants laughing) my potato plants, which are as big as large shrubs (I really had no idea, and it’s great, ’cause I actually needed shrubs in the backyard!). Anyway, much love from me and Clover Meadow — and many thanks for all you’ve shared over the years. Your work has inspired me more than I can say.

  39. Happy Birthday! I hope you always keep one step ahead of the weeds!

  40. BELATED HAPPY BIRTHDAY. You have a perfect time for a garden birthday party. My mother used to insist on planning an outdoor party for me each year to celebrate my March 20 birthday Well, it is the first day of spring isn’t it?
    I’m sure that you will love your clove currant. I have one and put in 2 more this spring. The variety ‘Crandall’ (ForestFarm) produces fruit that is big enough and sweet enough to eat out of hand or on breakfast cereal. And the scent of the flowers is magnificent. ENJOY!!!!!

  41. Hey Margaret
    Just got the email newsletter today and couldn’t help but notice the multiple references to your birthday. I celebrated a birthday in April (one of those that end in a zero) so I was a little bit more reflective than usual and here is the main theme I’m working on based on my many minutes of deep reflection.

    Treasure those beautiful days in the garden!

    I have turned down multiple invitations and put off stuff that can be done in the evenings to maximize my gardening hours and I’m loving it. My garden is looking great sure but the main thought is, how many beautiful days are we allotted in any lifetime? Grab them and hold on tight.

    Peace, Love and Great Gardening

    Jerry W

  42. Welcome, Jerome, and thanks for your message about carpe diem, and making priorities. “Peace, love and great gardening,” yes, but don’t forget David Byrne’s alternate version of that one-liner: “Peace, love and monkey business.” One simply *must* leave some time for that, too. :) See you soon again.

  43. Hey Margaret,

    Just realized that we share the same birthday except I have a lot more years than you to record. I loved your birthday stories…for myself I got an Oakleaf Hydrangea “Alice” for my NC garden; the one in Brooklyn garden is magnificent. Hope it does as well in NC.

  44. Welcome, Ellen, sister June 10th baby. The ‘Alice’ should be a winner (wasn’t it introduced by woody plant expert Michael Dirr from University of Georgia/Athens, as part of the Georgia Plant Introduction Program?). I bet it will like your warmer zone now. My old oakleaf here is finally getting big, after many years of so-so behavior. See you soon again.

  45. Nolie Freeman says:

    Happy Belated! What wonderful presents for your birthday presence.

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